Things In Life That Makes You Feel Good About Yourself
There are many things that you should add in your life such a good habits that is always going to make you feel happy and good about yourself.
When we talk about what can make us happy in general, we think about an acknowledgement of our effort from our senior or boss, a compliment on our outfit and style, a gentle smile of care and a kind gesture of humanity. But all these things aren’t in our control and there is no guarantee that these things are going to happen with you. That’s why we have to develop and find happiness within ourselves.Here are some of the most imporatnt things that you can paractice to be confident and feel good about yourself.
Develop Self-love
Nothing is more important than having the self-love. Stop comparing yourself to others because comparing yourself is going to lower your self-esteem and make you feel less and worthless. Accept your individuality and accept who you are. Stop thinking about the flaws you have because everyone is different and unique. You have to embrace yourself with your reality and real self. Put your self respect and self worth before anything else and never look down on yourself. You have to love yourself because if you hate your real self then you won’t be able to stand out with your unique personality and unleash your true potential.
Follow your passion
There is always something in life that you wanted to do with your whole heart. If you want to feel good in your daily life then you have to follow your heart and find happiness in doing what you are passionate about. Many people leave their passion due to circumstances and conditions. Doing something you don’t want to do is only going to make you feel frustrated and fed up. Following you heart might be risky and a bumpy ride but it is something that makes you feel happy. You have to fight for yourself and your dreams and make things happen. Hard work is challenging and difficult and it is going to take time but at the end it always pays of your efforts.
Have faith in yourself
This is the most important thing to believe in yourself and standing with yourself. Failure is always going to be the first step to challenge you that why you have to be consistence. Just believe in yourself that you can do it and never give up. Because if you look down on your abilities then you are going to be depressed and weak emotionally. This will also ruin your self-esteem. Give true compliments to yourself and never stay back from telling yourself how much you love yourself.
Never lower your standards
Set some standards and never lower them for anyone because people who really want to be in your life, will rise to those standards and be with you. These standards are not only for other people but also for your own self. You have to live by those standards and make yourself worthy enough to reflect those high standards. People who find excuses to leave you aren’t worthy of lowering your standards for. Don’t think about the negative things and the typical stereotype of lowering your standards because you are alone. Set realistic goals in life so that it can be achievable.
Treat others just like you want to be treated
Well this is one of the most important things in life that you should not hurt other's feelings and look down on them. Everyone else is also unique and worthy of respect that’s why you have to treat others just the way you want to be treated by them. If you want respect then give respect, if you want to be loved then give love and if you want be helped then offer help, if you want others to make you smile then make others smile. Being a good person is true happiness in one self. You should not discriminate anyone on the basis of gender, color, race, culture, religion and nationality.
Always find positive in everything
Bad things happes and we can’t do anything to avoid them. But key point here is to find the positivity in everything and have faith in yourself that you can make it better. Rather then crying and feeling about the negative things, you can focus on positivity and the things you can do to make things turn out like what you expected. If someone is criticizing you then find the constructive point in the criticism to improve yourself. Ignore negative people and negative comments that aren’t defining who you are because people who find flaws in you are insecure themselves.
Always remember who you are
If you are at the verge of breaking down you have to remind yourself that you are the person who made it through difficult times and grow up from toughest situations. Never forget who you are and where you come from because all those tough times and bad days are the reminder for you to understand how courageous and strong you are to made it through. Always remember your struggle to achieve something and never feel down for the negativity. It makes you feel so better and powerful about yourself. Always give pep talks to yourself and give strength to yourself when you are weak.
Maintain Work Life balance
No mater how much busy you are, you have to make time for the people you love and let them know that how much they matter to you. Always keep a balance between your work and your life. Give time to your family and your relationship. You have to develop your relations and make people around you feel loved because time is priceless and it will never come back if you didn’t utilize it perfectly.
Show gratitude
Always be grateful for what you have been given and granted. Show gratitude towards things and people you had in your life because your life might be the dream life of someone else. Don’t complain about the things that you couldn’t afford or have and embrace yourself just as you are. Look at what strengths you had and be grateful for it and learn to be happy with what you had. Because if you keep complaining about certain poor things in life then you can’t focus on the strengths you had.
Accept your mistakes
Be a responsible person for the things you have done and never make excuses to blame other for your mistakes. This will leads to have regrets and guilt later. Most importantly it will give you stress and effect your mental health. Just accept your mistakes and don’t blame others for the things you did wrong. Leave no regrets in your heart and take chances and challenges. Failures are the signs that you worked hard and you had no regrets.
Spent time with yourself
The closest and best friend of you is no one else but you. Make time for yourself and do things you like and invest time in your hobbies. Take part in activities that you like such as sports, yoga, mediation and physical activities. Activities such as listening to music Alone, going on hike, watching stars at night, traveling, going on dinner alone, Gardening and singing occasionally can boost your self esteem and give you reason to love yourself.
Learn to solve your own issues
Don’t rely on others because that can lead to disappointment. Don’t get your expectation high from others and solve your problems on your own. Make your own decisions and stick to it. Own yourself and work on your problem solving skills because the less you expect other’s Help the more you are going to be independent. It is also very important to be good decision maker.
Be yourself
To get the inner happiness and satisfaction you have to be yourself. There are times in our lives when we have to follow certain norms. Dressing yourself differently and following what others are doing is going to make you look trendy but inside you won’t be happy. So just accept your body and accept your style.